Happy Halloween by K

HAPPY HALLOWEEN! Today was fun because we had a HALLOWEEN parade I went in Fantasy with pippi. My teachers said you look very cute. I thanked them. Mrs Norton (MyTeacher) was a witch for HALLOWEEN. She had a pet spider,pumpkin purse and a red witch hat.

I would have been scared of the werewolf costume if I had not seen it on Julian in kindergarten.

HAPPY HALLOWEEN(agian) to all of you reading this Blog.

Love Little Red Riding Hood

31-Oct-07 Halloween day

Off Little Red Riding Hood went to school today! Coming home at noon (half day), her basket was full of treats. I let her share them with her little sister and brother even before they ate lunch. J said, "mom, you're spoiling us!"

At school, the Big Bad Wolf was sitting at Little Red's table. (Coincidence.)

There were many characters from Star Wars, including Princess Leia in her pants outfit. There were many characters from Hannah Montana as well. We do not know about these things at our house.

Pippi Longstocking won a prize and so did the Hot Dog. I don't know about his pal Mustard. Wolf won too. I liked Baseball Card and Flamenco Dancer.

Unfortunately I did not get to see the Halloween Parade and so I didn't see many kids from other grades. Eric enjoyed the Parade, although it is always hot on the blacktop!

At N's Parent Ed class, we covered cardboard with flannel to make storyboards. We each got a gate (that's why I cut out 18 yesterday), five pumpkins, and five ghosts that volunteer moms had cut out of felt. We learned a couple of Halloween stories and N just loves to carefully place the felt pieces on the board and move them around with the story. He demonstrated for his sisters and I wish I had caught it on video!

"Five Little Pumpkins"

Five little pumpkins, sitting on a gate

The first one said, "it's getting late!"

The second one said, "there are witches in the air!"

The third one said, "but I don't care!"

The fourth one said, "ooooo, let's run!"

The fifth one said, "it's only Halloween fun!"

Then "ooooooo" went the wind, and (clap) out went the light,

And the five little pumpkins rolled out of sight.

"Five Little Ghosts"

Five little ghosts all dressed in white

Were scaring each other on Halloween Night

The first one said, "I'll scare everyone I see"

The second one said, "You can't scare me!"

The third one said, "Let's hide behind a tree"

The fourth one said, "It's time to disappear"

The fifth one said, "See you on Halloween next year!"

J had Orange and Black Day at school. We left Parent Ed early to go see the kids sing Halloween songs. Darling! Each child got to pick out a pumpkin from the pumpkin patch room!

J's friend "Red" had chickenpox too, but was all scabbed over today so she got to come for the festivities. Surprising that this family had mild cases that only took a few days since they do not vaccinate their children.

What is up with the line spacing? I am going to tear my hair out.

Thank you for commenting on K's post. She absolutely LOVED getting the comments. I find myself always checking for them too!

It's naptime! Rest up for costume-bonanza-trick-or-treating-in-the-new-neighborhood-with-our-friends-hope-N-wears-a-costume-how-many-people-will-come-do-we-have-enough-candy?!

30-Oct-07 Halloween tasks completed today (jack o' lanterns!)

Actually, I carved this jack o' lantern last night so it would be ready for today's contest. K designed it. This morning we walked over with pumpkin and diorama (apparently we forgot crazy hat day and library books due), and took a look at the other creations:

Votes were placed in the cups at recess. K said her cup was overflowing with votes!


Back at home, we created two more jack o' lanterns. J chose to use a pattern for hers.



N found a complicated pattern of Elmo. His pumpkin is small, so I could only fit the face.

What is wrong with jack o' lantern-looking jack o' lanterns? I like those. But I don't have my own pumpkin. If I got one for myself, I would have to do the goop thing again (no thanks). Maybe Eric would scoop out goop for me. I'm sure he would, but not on such short notice. Oh, well.

So my list of Halloween tasks completed today:

• Jack o' lanterns
• Get a basket for Little Red Riding Hood (Dorothy costume came with one, thanks mom!)
• Cut out 18 Gates from brown felt (for the craft in N's Parent Ed class tomorrow morning)
• Charge videocamera

Happy Pumpkins by K

Today I turned in my spooky scene (diorama). I looked at the others too. I liked Maggie 's spooky scene the best. I liked mine too. Today was crazy hat day at school and I forgot to wear a crazy hat. Claire's crazy hat was ridiculous because it looked like there was pink underwear on her head. Actually it was made out of a safari hat and a tutu and the way it was made was a tutu on a safari hat. I kinda liked it . It was pretty anyway. There was a pumpkin carving contest at school today. I entered a pumpkin at the pumpkin carving contest today. There were winners at the pumpkin carving contest but I do not remember who they were. I can not believe tomorrow is HALLOWEEN! HAPPY HALLOWEEN to all of you reading this Blog.

Love K

29-Oct-07 Halloween is coming!

J was back at school today, and in fact was back at Sunday School yesterday for the costume parade. Chickenpox was so much better for her than it was for me way back when! Just a few spots, just a few days, and that's it! Hooray for vaccines. We'll see in about two weeks if K or N come down with it. Also the neighbor girl, who managed to slip into our house on Friday afternoon. I suddenly realized, "V is upstairs playing with J. Do her parents know this? .... Do her parents know J has the chickenpox?" Well, the neighbor parents did know she was at our house but did not know about the chickenpox. Oops! Parental faux pas -- I felt like an idiot. "Should I send her back home?" "Probably too late now, don't you think?" said neighbor mom. Time will tell!
J had gone out front to swing on the swing while I was just inside in the living room on the phone. Neighbor girl saw J outside, ran out to play with her, and next thing you know they're in the house and playing upstairs. Neighbor girl has a talent for this sort of thing!
K has some Halloween goings-on at school tomorrow: Pumpkin Carving Contest and 2nd Grade Spooky Scenes (aka dioramas). So I was up to my elbows in pumpkin goop this evening. Good thing the diorama was already done. Then on Wednesday K has the Halloween parade at 11 am and J has the Orange-and-Black-Day singalong at ... 11 am. I have called in backup (Eric will come over from work to be in one place while I am in the other).

A couple weekends ago, we chose our pumpkins:

Tonight we scooped out the goop. Each child reacted differently to this job. Let's analyze (this could be fun):

J got right in there, and worked hard, enjoyed the squishy goopiness, and was the first to get it cleaned out.

N was very serious about his job. He used his little scooper to take the seeds out but needed mommy's help with the scraping. He worked quietly.

K got a little dot of goop on her cheek. See it in the photo?

She went in the house to get a paper towel for herself.

Shocking.

She did not work quietly, but made sure we all knew her opinions of this job. "Eeew! Gross!" "Mom, can you scoop mine out?" (Mom: "put your hands in there and pull out the goop.") "I don't want to! It makes my hands messy!"

Here is her spooky scene for school:

25-Oct-07 dr. visit update

Yep, she's got chicken pox. Two of the "lesions" now look like the chicken pox, rather than little bug bites. Once the dr. found those two, she said, "yep." Should be quicker and milder due to the vaccine. Bought some calamine lotion and oatmeal bath. We'll watch K and N but hopefully the vaccine "took" in both of them (K did have two doses). I'll be interested to see if other kids we know get it as well.

25-Oct-07 update

Well, her fever is gone and she has a few more red bumps. She slept fine last night.
We are staying home, of course.

I still think it's chicken pox that just looks different because she had received the vaccine.* In fact, here is something I found on DukeHealth.org:
"About 15 percent of varicella-vaccinated children fail to have an optimal response to vaccination and, if exposed to varicella later in life, can develop a very mild form of varicella. Usually this disease looks like bug bites; often, the child has no fever and doesn't seem sick at all."
That's exactly what it looks like! (Although she was feverish yesterday...)

We are going into the ped's office at 4:30 this afternoon so the professionals can look at it and I can stopping guessing and wondering!

*she was vaccinated at 12 months, but hasn't had the booster. K got that at 5 years. My point being that this is not caused by the vaccine itself; she must have been exposed to the virus recently. If this even is chicken pox.

I don't know who she got it from. I guess that's another thing about the vaccine -- now the virus can be passed around without showing any symptoms in some kids, while causing a mild case in others.

Although we have a few friends who don't vaccinate their kids. I am not going to get into it here.

24-Oct-07 'til tomorrow...

I guess I shouldn't have called them "wildfires" yesterday. It appears that most of them were set by arsonists. Can you believe that?

My eyes felt better today, although the schools still didn't let the kids outside because there is a lot of particulate matter (ash) in the air.

You know, we don't get the Santa Ana winds here in Pasadena/South Pasadena. We get other kinds of winds (the colder ones), but not usually the SAs and this week was no exception. Absolutely no wind here. We must be shielded from them. They come from the east and our mountains are on the north, so I don't know what the shield is, but there must be something. Growing up in Santa Ana, we sure got the winds. I remember there were times in elementary school when I thought the wind was going to pick me up off the ground. Going outside was so difficult; walking was tough against the wind and with all the dust flying so hard, you had to keep your eyes closed. I HATED those winds. But it is still weird even after 16 years hearing that they are happening and not actually experiencing any wind.

I titled this "til tomorrow..." because it looks like J might have chicken pox. The spots that she's got (more every hour this evening) don't look like pox, but the nurse at the ped's office said that's because she had the vaccine. She has a fever and the spots, although she's not complaining about itchiness (two of the spots look like they've been scratched, though). The nurse said to monitor her tonight and call them with the status in the morning. We'll see what tomorrow brings...

Look at this, Shannon sent more pics of Malia!!

I can't approve of her outfit...

But that is one cute baby! Hi Malia!

23-Oct-07 wildfires

You might be wondering about us when you hear about all the fires going on. We are doing fine, but the air quality is really terrible. The sky is orange and smells like smoke. I can't actually see any smoke, though. Katie's school isn't letting the kids go outside, people are cancelling playgroups, and my eyes are so itchy that it's a glasses day for me.
Things are much worse for a LOT of people so we are not complaining.

17-Oct-07

I don't know why the line spacing is different in some places than other places.

Nick told me that Thomas and James (the trains) are friends. I said, "who are Nick's friends?" He said, "Julianna!"

I don't know if I should think of that as good or bad...

16-Oct-07 Fiddle and Firehouse

Katie has started taking a violin class after school on Mondays. She has been asking for this for over a year (possibly even three years). She looks cute, huh?

And then look what she did - she even gave J and I turns trying it out. That was nice of her!

Today J, N and I walked over to the fire station to meet her preschool class there. We had been there for field trips before, but this time there were a few things that really stood out. One, they got a medical call while we were there, so we got to watch some firefighters hurry into one of the engines and head out, lights flashing, and then the siren after they were out on the street. That was exciting. Also, the firefighter who stayed with us demonstrated all of the gear they wear, talking through it as he put each piece on. When he put on the mask and air, and then hat, the kids were kind of scared but it was good to hear the sound of his breathing with the tank and see that it was the same nice firefighter who had been with us all along under that mask. Hopefully the kids will never need to use the information, but it's good for them to know what a firefighter would look and sound like in a fire. And one more thing, he showed them how to test a door to see if it's safe to open it if they hear the smoke detector. I don't think they will remember that, but it was good for me to see and learn. Now I will have to remember to have family emergency drills on a regular basis.

15-Oct-07 Norton Simon Museum

We didn't go to the Huntington Gardens on Friday after all. The weather was fine, but I had a different idea: the Norton Simon. We had never been there. So we picked up Katie from school at noon after Music Together and helping a little with Fair set-up, ate lunch, and sat down to have a discussion. I asked the kids if they wanted to go to an art museum, and suggested that we make ourselves a scavenger hunt. They were enthusiastic about the idea, so we named things we thought we might see in the art and Katie made a list with check boxes. On it were things like dog, cat, elephant, monkey, penguin, cow, whale, dragon, ostrich, robin, apple, hat, pillow, tree, boat, car, train, ocean, beach, clouds, moon, stars, vase of flowers, person sitting, person running, Jesus, fork, church, party, pumpkin, bat... When we got to the museum, we looked out for things on our list and Katie checked them off.

It is not a kid-friendly museum. It is a real, serious, art museum. There were guards everywhere, and we were talked to four or five times! I thought the kids really behaved very well, but the guards were very quick to say something at any inkling of anything. Some of the things they said to us were no running, no touching the walls, no touching the nameplates, no touching the barriers... Despite all that, I thought it was great to take the kids to someplace that felt so grown-up and cultured. They were very interested in looking at the paintings and spotting things in our hunt. We also looked for colors and had fun with the abstracts. It was really handy that they have a beautiful Monet-style garden to walk around in and be a little louder! There are statues to look at out there (in addition to the Rodins out front, before you come inside).

Here are some of our favorite paintings from the visit:

This portrait of a dog in the 17th-18th Century gallery was a hit with the kids!

There were so many we liked in the 19th Century gallery! They have an extensive Degas collection. But J really veered towards this portrait of a peasant by Van Gogh.

In the 20th Century gallery, we liked this one by Rousseau with the monkeys and oranges. We also enjoyed examining the Kandinsky (below) for colors and shapes.

Saturday and Sunday was the Fair (Hoedown). We spent most of the two days there and ate lunch and dinner there both days. The kids did rides, crafts, games, watched the entertainment... Katie played with her friends and her sibs and was very into the whole fair experience. I baked cakes for the cake walk and goodies for the Sweet Shack. I also performed with my band Midnight Ride on Sunday evening, to close out the fair. My voice made it all the way through, which was a relief since I had sung Saturday night at a gig with Palm Drive. That was a fun one too -- it was Polytechnic School's 100th anniversary gala dinner dance, and the dance floor was packed for the whole two hours (we decided not to take a break).

11-Oct-07 Huntington Gardens

Last Thursday we went to the Huntington Gardens for the "free day." It is still free, but you have to get tickets in advance now. That worked in our favor, since the place was not crowded. It was a good, though short, visit. J and N now want to go back, and we got tickets for next month, so next time I'll be able to get them out the door sooner and we can stay longer.

J's favorite thing was the lab stations in the kids' conservatory. They have these sugar probes, and you put some nectar on there and get a readout of which plant has more sugar. Bees prefer one percentage, hummingbirds another, and butterflies another. There was also a pH probe to compare the acidity of carnivorous plants to that of regular water. And there were microscopes attached to monitors all over the place, and we all enjoyed those. I was very proud of my inquisitive kid! (While trying to be patient with her wanting to do the tests over and over and over... and asking myself why am I getting antsy anyway? isn't this what I want kids to do, as a science teacher? what's up with this?)

We had only a few minutes to play in the outdoor part of the children's garden. Of course, we spent them at the fountains. The highlight of every kid's visit!

Tomorrow K has a half day. I might take all three to the Huntington Gardens after school, so K can see it too. There is a rumor of rain, though, so we'll play it by ear, as usual! They have much-needed haircut appointments in the afternoon.

9-Oct-07 football

Were you thinking I had forgotten about the football this weekend? Wasn't that something. We did not watch the Stanford-USC game, because someone gave us tickets to the Notre Dame-UCLA game and we thought Nick would enjoy it so Eric and I took him to the Rose Bowl while the girls played at the Bakers'.

Our neighbors were going to the USC game and asked us if we were going. "No way," we said, "it doesn't sound fun to watch our team get blown out. We'll be at the Rose Bowl instead."

We were crammed into the Rose Bowl surrounded by some drunk ND fans. The bleacher seats are not big enough if everyone shows up. We had four tickets for two adults and a two-year-old, which was good because it sort of made up for the problem. The rows in front of and behind us both were unable to accommodate everyone who had tickets for the row. Nick was interested, but it was hard to follow the football. He liked seeing the "instruments" (UCLA band) and the blimp and helicopters. He liked watching field goals. We were on the corner, pretty close, but still it's a big field.

So there we were, making the best of the discomfort and still having fun with Nick, when the crowd started cheering for no apparent reason. Eric figured it must be the Stanford-USC game. We came to find out that Stanford had taken the lead, 24-23, late in the 4th. We craned to see the TVs in the press box, but they were too far away to really get any information. The cell and blackberry had no reception in the Rose Bowl. What were we doing in that cramped stadium with the drunk guys, not able to see what Stanford was doing? When the stadium PA announced the final score, Stanford 24 USC 23, the place went wild with cheering. I was dumbfounded. How were we not watching? Unbelievable.

Stanford better not lose the rest. Let's win some more. One in particular would be really good, but I'm not going to say it out loud...

8-Oct-07 Boy humor

Nick is very interested in traffic lights these days. "Red means stop, green means go." There is a little song to the tune of "Twinkle Twinkle Little Star," and when out, he is always telling us "that light is red, that means stop."

This morning, walking home from Katie's school, he said, "The red light is on the top. The yellow light is in the middle. The green light is on the bottom." "Yes, honey," I said. Then he said, "Ha ha ha, the DIAPER is on the bottom!! Ha ha ha ha!"

I guess that begins the boy humor.

Here he is hard at work coloring... what a big boy.

5-Oct-07 Four pictures!

Hi Mom! I'm doing fine. Wednesday I was really tired and feeling the early cold symptoms -- the ache-ing behind the eyes, etc. stuff that wears you out. Luckily I didn't have a rehearsal that night so I took a shower and went to bed. Also, Tuesday night at band rehearsal there was a big fight (I was not part of it, it was about things that go way back with them) and it was just a draining experience on top of feeling sick. We'll see how it goes this coming Tuesday!

Last night I had a gig with a (slightly) different group and it went pretty well. I could have done better but I always feel that way. People seemed to like it.

Next weekend I have two gigs with two different bands! Busy!

Here are some photos of your latest creations!

3-Oct-07 Brownie

Katie loves being a Brownie. She had a meeting last Wednesday, and one of their activities involved a code (*=A, @=B, etc.). Each girl wrote a note in the code, and then the troop leaders (my kudos to those moms, btw) took them, mixed them up, and mailed them out yesterday. Katie just got a card in the mail today and got out her code to figure out what her friend had written. She really had fun with that.

I can't do this today. I just can't deal. I just wanted to share that little story! I am feeling sick (head cold) (so it's a good thing I didn't drive up to see Malia after all), and last night I witnessed interpersonal dysfunction that was very tense and emotional, but I didn't want to be all "woe is me" so I thought maybe I would write about my friend who got to meet Hillary Rodham Clinton on Monday. I also want to write something about friendships - how hard it is to give them the time that I want to give them. And the other evening, I was listening to a CD from 1991 and had a huge flashback (complete with tears). Maybe I will write about those things another day.

2-Oct-07 goofballs all around

I am surrounded by goofballs. Being one myself, I guess it is unavoidable! And I like goofballs, anyway. Look at this one:

Coming into his own with moments of ham-itude.

I grabbed the camera when I saw a box walking through the house. By the time I took the picture, the box had slipped back, but when he was walking around he was pretty much totally covered except for two little legs. Usually, he is a quiet ham. But sometimes, he is a really noisy one. He reminds me of Katie more and more every day.

1-Oct-07 Kids-in-a-box

Today we received some pictures of Malia in the mail! Hooray! She is so cute. I want to get in the car and drive up there and see her!!!! If I didn't have several singing gigs coming up in the next few weeks (starting with this Thursday), I don't think I would be fighting this urge.

I have a link over there --> to Catherine Newman's blog. She writes columns about parenting for various websites and magazines, and wrote a book called "Waiting for Birdy." I have been reading her columns since I was pregnant with J (she was also pregnant with her second child at that time). I don't know her, but it is interesting to me that her family lives where Darell and Kathryn live. Anyway, reading her columns always gives me a "whoosh" feeling inside, because I just relate to them so viscerally. Really, when something hits home, I get either all teary-eyed, or butterflies in my stomach, or a sudden head rush or something. Kinda weird.

Anyway, her blog is mostly just links to her columns. She has just written one about how love ebbs and flows. Really, she is so brave and honest to write about the times you don't love parenting so much, and somehow she reflects on them and they become a celebration of the wonder of parenting too. She makes me feel so much better about both the good times and the not-as-good.

I was reading her column on Friday, and I thought, "she is so amazing. I want to be Catherine Newman when I grow up." Then I thought, "Well, I really want to be KT Tunstall when I grow up (although I would have to go back in time a few years for that). I want to be some kind of combination of Kate Tunstall, Catherine Newman, and Anna Armitage when I grow up!" And then I thought, "wait a second, I think that's what I am!"

So that made me feel pretty happy with my life, and so does THIS: (taken on Thursday)

I think there is a similar picture of Darell and I somewhere!